The Confidence Comeback: How to Feel Sexy & Strong Again After 40
- Shannon Wade
- 5 days ago
- 3 min read
Let’s be real for a minute.
You used to walk into a room and own it. You had this energy—this presence—that people noticed before you even said a word.
But lately? You feel like a version of yourself you barely recognize.
The weight gain. The bloating. The weird skin changes. The zero sex drive. The foggy head. The emotional outbursts. The exhaustion.
Some days it feels like your body is betraying you—and your confidence along with it.
Here’s the truth no one told us: midlife doesn’t have to mean losing yourself. In fact, this can be the beginning of your biggest comeback yet.
What Actually Steals Your Confidence in Midlife (It’s Not Just Your Jeans)
Let’s get one thing straight—this isn’t just about looks. It’s about how you feel in your body. And that feeling is deeply connected to:
Hormonal chaos (estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, cortisol—all shifting)
Brain chemistry changes that affect your mood, motivation, and clarity
Physical symptoms like hot flashes, bloat, fatigue, and weight gain
Self-image struggles from not recognizing the woman in the mirror
Mental load overload from caregiving, working, aging parents, and everyone needing you
It’s no wonder your confidence has taken a hit. But here’s the good news: it’s not gone—it’s just buried. And we can dig her out.
You Can Reclaim Your Energy, Power, and Presence—Naturally
This isn't about "bouncing back"—it's about powering forward. And the way you do that isn’t with willpower or a trendy diet. It’s by creating deep-rooted, internal safety and balance in your body.
Here’s how we get your confidence back:
Balance Your Blood Sugar to Stabilize Mood + Energy
Mood swings, anxiety, and exhaustion don’t exactly scream confidence. Start by focusing on:
Protein at every meal
Fiber + healthy fats (think avocado, flax, olive oil)
Minimizing refined carbs and sugar spikes
Even just this shift can dramatically improve how you feel—fast.
Tame Cortisol & Work With Your Nervous System
Midlife confidence doesn’t come from pushing harder. It comes from slowing down intentionally—with walks, deep breathing, gentle movement, and rest that’s actually restorative.
Try this: a 10-minute walk after dinner and 3 deep belly breaths before meals. That small habit helps reset your entire system.
Need more support - try my trusted supplement Happy Juice HERE
Support Estrogen, Progesterone, & Testosterone Naturally
These hormones do way more than regulate your period. They’re directly tied to:
Your sex drive
Your muscle tone
Your skin, hair, and sleep
Your ability to feel emotionally stable
You can support them naturally with:
Cruciferous veggies (broccoli, cauliflower)
Seeds (flax, pumpkin, sesame, sunflower)
Quality sleep, minerals, and adaptogens
Targeted supplementation (which I help clients choose carefully)
Reconnect to Your Strength
You don’t have to go back to a gym or lift heavy to feel strong. Strength is also:
Walking up a hill without pain
Holding a plank for 30 seconds
Dancing in your kitchen
Saying no without guilt
Try adding 10–15 minutes of movement daily that feels good. Start where you are. That small spark builds momentum fast.
Reclaim Your Voice
Confidence isn’t just about your body. It’s about how you show up—for yourself.
Maybe you’ve been quietly tolerating things for years—putting your needs last, nodding yes when you meant no, not asking for help.
But you can choose a different story now. One where you are allowed to take up space. To be heard. To change your mind. To evolve.
This Isn’t a Midlife Crisis. It’s a Midlife Awakening.
And I see you, standing on the edge of your comeback.
You’re not broken. You’re not invisible. You’re not past your prime.
You’re becoming the version of yourself that’s stronger, wiser, and more grounded than ever before.
Want Support With Your Confidence Comeback?
If this blog made you nod and tear up at the same time, I’d love to connect.
I offer free 1:1 consultations to help you map out your own midlife reset plan—one that’s based on your symptoms, goals, and lifestyle. No pressure, just support.
Book a free consult here → https://c9ee49h1arn.typeform.com/Discovery?typeform-source=www.thatmenopausementor.com
You can feel sexy again. You can feel powerful again. And you absolutely deserve to feel like you again.
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With so much belief in your comeback,
Shannon,
That Menopause Mentor
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