Why Perimenopause Isn’t Just “Hormones” — It’s a Whole-Body Wake-Up Call
- Shannon Wade
- Jun 18
- 3 min read
Updated: Jul 11
Hey beautiful soul,
If you’ve ever sat there thinking “What the heck is happening to me?” while you sweat through a meeting, forget why you walked into a room, or snap at someone you love for no reason… you are not alone.
Perimenopause has a way of sneaking in like a quiet storm — and then suddenly your sleep is off, your mood is a rollercoaster, your gut feels bloated, your jeans are tight, and your brain is filled with fog. Sound familiar?
And if you’ve been told “It’s just your hormones,” I want you to know this: That’s only part of the story. Perimenopause isn’t just a hormone shift. It’s a whole-body wake-up call.
Let’s talk about what that really means — and how you can start to respond with clarity, compassion, and some seriously effective tools.

The Truth: Your Body Is Asking for a New Way of Living
In your 30s and 40s, your body begins to whisper… and eventually shout. Not because it’s broken. But because it’s brilliant.
Your hormones — estrogen, progesterone, cortisol, insulin — are powerful messengers. They don’t just control periods and fertility. They affect everything from how your brain functions, to how your gut digests food, to how your body handles stress and stores fat.
So when your hormones shift, everything else does too. But here’s the real kicker: It’s not just your hormones shifting. It’s your nervous system. Your gut. Your sleep-wake cycles. Your metabolism. Your mind.
And often? These systems are already overloaded before perimenopause begins.
Let’s Break It Down — The Whole-Body Players in Perimenopause
Here’s a quick tour of what’s going on under the surface:
1. The Gut-Brain Axis
Bloating, anxiety, mood swings, sugar cravings… these aren’t just hormone problems. They often stem from imbalances in your gut — which is also where most of your serotonin is produced.
If your gut isn’t happy, your mood and focus won’t be either.
2. The Adrenals + Cortisol
Chronic stress (hello, high-pressure career, caregiving, and invisible labor) jacks up your cortisol. In perimenopause, this becomes a huge issue, since your adrenals are called in to help produce hormones as your ovaries step back.
If your stress is unmanaged, your symptoms get louder.

3. Insulin & Blood Sugar
Erratic blood sugar can cause fatigue, brain fog, weight gain, and more. As your estrogen dips, your sensitivity to carbs changes. The same foods may suddenly not work the way they used to.
Stable blood sugar = stable energy, mood, and weight.
4. Sleep & Circadian Rhythm
Poor sleep isn’t just a symptom — it’s a root cause of worsening hormone imbalances. When you’re not getting deep, restorative rest, your body can’t heal or balance properly.
Prioritizing sleep hygiene is hormone therapy in disguise.
5. The Mind + Identity Shift
This one gets overlooked — but girl, it’s real. Perimenopause is not just physical. It’s emotional. Spiritual. It’s a rebirth.
You may find yourself questioning everything: "Who am I now?" "What do I want?" "Is this all there is?"
That’s not a crisis. That’s a call. And it’s your chance to rise.
So What Do You Do With All This?
You don’t fix it all overnight. You don’t need to fear it. And you definitely don’t need to suffer in silence.
You meet it with awareness. You support your body like the powerhouse it is. You get curious. You nourish. You heal.
Here’s where I recommend starting:

Step 1: Understand Your Unique Archetype
You are not one-size-fits-all. That’s why I created the Midlife Wellness Archetype Quiz — to help you identify how your body is processing this transition, and where you need the most support. (It’s free, quick, and honestly, kind of fun!)
Step 2: Start With These Foundations:
Balance your blood sugar: protein + fiber at every meal
Support your nervous system: magnesium, adaptogens, daily grounding
Heal your gut: fermented foods, prebiotics, and “Happy Juice” 😉
Move intentionally: less punishment, more power (think: walks, strength, stretching)
Honor rest: Create a sacred sleep ritual — your hormones will thank you

Final Thought: This Isn’t the End — It’s Your Midlife Upgrade
If no one has told you this yet: Perimenopause doesn’t mean you’re fading. It means you’re evolving.
This is your chance to finally stop overriding your body… and start partnering with it.
You’re not crazy. You’re not broken. You’re wise. You’re waking up. You’re ready.
And I’m here to walk with you.
With love & gut-healing green smoothies, Coach Shannon Certified Integrative Health Coach & Wellness Mentor for Midlife Women
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THE WHOLE-BODY RESET: 5 Essential Systems to Support in Perimenopause
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